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Yes, I'm Bisexual and No I'm Not Attracted To You!
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By: Nikki
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I dropped the bisexual bomb almost two years ago
and people are still asking me about it. Common
questions include: "Are you a lesbian?" "Do you
like me?" "Do you know you are going to hell?" oh
and my favorite "What do you mean you are
bisexual?" Well, usually the answers stay the
same: no, no, hell no (pun intended), and it
means that I have the capability to love
regardless of gender. But after a while I just
can't take it anymore. The same questions over
and over again. I hate the stares and the
whispers. Am I the only one who thinks I am
normal? So I made the mistake one day of getting
some bisexual themed stickers and showing them to
people when they would approach me. (My favorite
one was "Two paths diverged in a yellow wood, and
I chose both!") That just complicated things
more. I was accused of being an activist (which I
don't have the endurance to do as of now) and
completely outcasted. Now I sit alone during
lunch. The only communication is when I hear
snippets of conversations and respond in my head.
But I'm cool with it. I'm not going to change who
I am to fit some mold cast by society. Sure, I'd
love to be accepted, fit in, and be the little
social butterfly. But its just not realistic.
Maybe I'm doomed to be labeled "The Bi Chick"
forever. But most likely I will over come this
adversity and be famous for my excellent writing
talent (I aspire to become a published novelist)
and not my sexuality. In short, being
bi/gay/lesbian/transgendered or anything else
doesn't have to limit what you can do as a
person. Your still a person that deserves
anything and everything allowed to someone of
heterosexuality. If there's one thing you
remember from this make it that. You are worth
something and whoever says different is lying
horribly.
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