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Gay/Les/Bi Advice
Ask our gay/les/bi advisors anything having to do with gay/les/bi issues.
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| Topic: |
Dating |
| Date: |
August 12, 2011 |
| Wicked_2014 asks: |
how can i meet gay teens in my area? (cincinnati) |
| axedmoon says: |
http://forums.student.com/viewtopic.php?t=317314
Check out the Social Resources at the bottom! =) |
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| Topic: |
General |
| Date: |
July 27, 2011 |
| emo_princess3 asks: |
i am a 17 year old female going to be 18 in a few months. a few months ago i sent in a question and it never got answered not only will i ask again in different words but i would also like to know why it wasn't answered please. okay here it goes.......i have a boyfriend and i really love him but sometimes i look at a girl and think damn she is hot and ill steal glances at her and even watch her walk. i judge girls with my bf and he thinks i am just joking around with him. me and my best friend have kissed twice the first time we was with our boyfriends and was faking it and leaned in too close it was kinda weird. the second time we was laying in her bed and she leaned down and kissed me. after that we spent almost every weekend together. that summer we started taking bubble baths together when we would get upset with swim suits on after our bath we would shower and when she washed my hair i liked it and started thinking of us together. now me and her have dwifted apart but it isnt the first time i have been atracted to a woman. i am curently attracted to one of my bf's friends and i just wanna know am i bi? and i would actually like to experiment to make sure but i dont know how to go about doing it. im kinda shy. ive never thought of having sex with a female and wouldnt really know how. i just want to know what is going on and what i should do about it. please answer quickly ive been dealing with this for 2 years and im tired of waiting around for answers please plase hurry. thanks. |
| rickweber says: |
It sounds like you're attracted to women and men. You confirm this for yourself. I think its worthwhile for you to explore your attraction to women. Keep in mind that exploration can be more than sexual; getting to know other women who feel similarly could help you too.
What should you do about it? I feel like that depends on what you want. What do you want to get out of this exploration? If the goal is to have sex with other women, then getting to know other women, dating or hooking up, and having sexual encounters seems like the path. |
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| Topic: |
General |
| Date: |
June 21, 2011 |
| foreverconfused asks: |
Hey advisor(s), I'm in need for serious advice, I'm open and willing to hear, technically read anything. So I'm about to be a Sophmore in High School, and well during my Freshman year I have met an amazing girl. I liked/like her a lot.(forgot to mention I am a girl). So when we first met I didn't think much of her, just thought she was really shy as we got to know eachother i found out she was the total opposite. We both are in the same group, clique, what ever you want to call it. So we talk a whole lot. So, anyways I got to know a whole lot about this girl, shes smart, clumsy, flawless...perfect, and she is also extremely funny(humor is a way to my heart :)). I've had a lot of friends who could fit that description but I never saw them more than just a friend. She just made everything different, I guess you can say complicated. I use to think she liked me...more than a friend, because of the way she looked at me, she use to stare at me all the time when she thought i wasn't looking, and she always seemed to find a excuse to touch me. I'm not sure if it was just friendly gestures or something more. I don't know, am I delusional only seeing what I want to see, or could there be something there between us, that is more than friendship?? OH another problem she doesn't know I'm bi, i know big mistake, should of told her. And I don't know about her. She gives off vibes or is just faulty gaydar??? Sorry I wrote so much, and I apologize in advance for any grammar mistakes, typed this pretty fast. I just need something, anything, help me please!! |
| axedmoon says: |
Hey there, I think the answer is pretty simple. I think you should come out to her and see how she reacts and move from there.
Word of warning - it is very difficult to transition from friendship to a relationship or even expect anything. Keep an open mind that she might be straight. It's hard to judge with girls (and obviously hard for me to judge from just a brief description without having really interacted with her) as they are more personal with friendships than guys are.
So just come out. See what she thinks. Maybe she'll come out too if she isn't straight, but don't be disappointed if she is. At least, you can hope to gain a good friend to support you?
Take care, and good luck. |
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