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Gay/Les/Bi Advice
Ask our gay/les/bi advisors anything having to do with gay/les/bi issues.
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Self |
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July 05, 2010 |
| Helpp! asks: |
Im a 15 year old guy and im not sure if im bi or gay. I know for a fact that i like guys but i dont know if i like girls. I just recently had a girlfriend and yesterday we went to the movies together. She was all over me the whole movie. I hated it. I felt like i wanted to cry. I dont know if it was the fact that i just met her the day before, if she was ugly, or if i just dont like girls. So heres the question. Am i bisexual or am i gay? |
| rickweber says: |
I can't tell you what you are, that's something for you to continue exploring. I can tell you that nobody likes to be smothered by someone they hardly know. If being with this person doesn't feel right, then stop going out with them. |
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Family |
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June 04, 2010 |
| jaymotkd asks: |
I'm a gay teenager in Athens, Georgia who is out to some friends but not to any family. It's really tearing us apart because me not being able to tell them I'm gay makes me feel unable to trust them and tell them anything. I can't come out to them, because they are old fashioned and very religious and would just send me away to one of those conversion camps. =/ I'm really tired of it and I just don't know how I'm going to cope till I graduate in 2 years. |
| rickweber says: |
Living in secrecy is very stressful but you're not alone. Often many people wait until they achieve a more independent life to tell others. Some people don't ever tell their family. However, this doesn't mean you have to allow this to affect EVERY aspect of your relationship with your family. While you may not be able to tell them now doesn't mean you can't share other aspects of your life with them or trust them on many issues.
How can you cope? Hopefully you have friends who you can share that aspect of your life with. Also seeking out support by attending your local GSA and/or pride center can be helpful as well. It's a great chance to meet new people and make friends. |
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Self |
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May 24, 2010 |
| =/ asks: |
Hello there! So I've been out for a couple of years, in the sense than I know I'm not simply heterosexual. I've spend a lot of time in the qmmunity, though I don't really know WHAT I am. I'd be comfortable saying I'm pansexual, because I do feel for any sex, any person. Truly, however, it's more like a never ending current. I'm attracted to everyone. Almost every person I see, I'm either sexually attracted or romantically attracted to them. I just wonder if if there IS a orientation like this, or am I just a really intense pansexual? You're advice is appreciated! |
| bretth4 says: |
Well sexuality is a strange thing and anything is possible. If you feel this way, then its a valid orientation. We understand very little about human sexuality, and i wouldn't be at all surprised if your omnisexuality turned out to be a fairly common thing. My advice is this, don't worry about social labels and just live your life. If people ask, just say that you're bisexual and leave it at that. |
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